Monday, December 06, 2004

Comment update 2

No one has come forward yet so I am still left wondering who posted the comments. My original suspicions that it was Damian still stand as he has not texted me back but I also suspect that it could have been someone else. I have texted her as well but she has not replied either. It is less likely to be her since I have not posted anything bad about her but I have posted recently about what is going on in her life (post has been removed now) and the writing style of the comments seems more like a woman was writing it.
I havent entirely dismissed the possibility that the comments came from a random person from the web but realistically I dont think that is the case. My blog isnt listed publically anywhere so really the only people who should have access are those who know where my site is.
I am still seriously considering removing my blog from my website. It is not something that I want to do because everyone who reads my blog seems to enjoy it or at least appreciate the updates about what is going on in my life. I may consider moving my blog to an area of my site which requires login details and then I can screen who reads it but again that is something I dont want to do.
I'm off home now so I'll post again tomorrow.

Update on comments

I suspect that I know who made the comments they made.
I think it was probably Damian. I have texted him this morning asking if he made any posts on my blog over the weekend and have received no reply which tends to suggest that it might be him.
I made some comments about Damian a while ago (which I have now removed) and I can only apologise sincerely for making them.
I can only justify my comments by saying that I was upset and angry at what I saw as the final nail in the coffin of our friendship - a friendship which I valued highly during my time at university.
I know anything I say now will probably not help much but I thought I should say something anyway.

If I have this wrong and it was someone else who posted the comments then please let me know.

Recent comments

Yesterday someone posted some comments on my blog which have hit me quite hard.
The general impression given by the comments is that I have been lying on my blog about someone in my life and that in doing so I have hurt them.
Unfotunately I don't know who this person is because they posted anonymously but I would ask that they come forward and tell me who they are so that I can apologise to them for causing hurt and so I can correct whatever it is they think I have got wrong.
I always try to post honestly here and up to now I have received no negative comments about what I have written. At this point I am seriously considering removing my blog to prevent anything like this happening again.