So at the start of this year Cathy finally convinced me to go along to try out at Phoenix Cheerleaders. I went there for a few months before a comedy of errors resulted in myself, Cathy, Ciara, Jen and Riley all leaving. The latest I've heard is that they've been banned from all leisure centres for not paying their bill.
Anyway, the good news is that after leaving Phoenix (and after briefly toying with the idea of starting our own team) we found Manchester Lightning Cheerleaders who myself, Cathy and Ciara joined.
This team is far better coached than Phoenix and is far less cliquey which means the team as a whole is a lot closer and there's certainly no bitching about others.
The weekend before last we competed in the BCA Northern Classic which was a major thing for me. Being in front of an audience has been my biggest fear as long as I can remember and it was the scariest thing I've done that I can remember. A strange thing happened afterwards though - I found myself wanting to go back out and do it again.
I've always felt valued at practice because being a guy, I'm naturally stronger than most of the girls. (even in my terrible condition...) This is great because it makes me feel that I contribute to the team in a positive way and when we were joined by another guy I was initially wary as I was aware that it reduced my usefulness. I soon put that behind me as I became friends with him and started working with him of course.
Anyway, when we were at the competition there were more male cheerleaders there who were incredibly fit and strong. They put my "strength" into perspective and so I've begun a new exercise routine which I'm hoping will make the difference. Basically I'm exercising whenever I can. This new thing started yesterday when I ran before work and went on the exercise bike after work. Today I ran before work and went swimming at lunch time - I also plan to go on the exercise bike when I get home.
I'm hoping I can really stick to this and incorporate weight training as well to build on my strength as well as my general fitness.
It's all good anyway. I'm really happy about cheerleading and its definitely something I look forward to every week. Our coach sometimes thanks us for attending extra practices or performing at weekends to promote the team but honestly, I can't think of anything I'd rather be doing with my time :-)